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Chapter 4 of 8

Chapter 4

When Habits Become Hard to Control

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Behavioral addiction and instant gratification can connect through reward, repetition, impulsivity, and loss of control. Some behaviors can become serious even when no substance is involved.

behavioral addictions resemble substance addictions in many domains
(Grant et al., 2010, p. 233)

Three parts that tend to appear together

01

Reward

The behavior feels rewarding or relieving in the moment.

02

Repetition

The person returns to it again and again.

03

Loss of control

The behavior continues even when it creates problems.

This does not mean scrolling, gaming, watching videos, or avoiding an assignment automatically counts as addiction. The larger concern is whether a repeated behavior becomes difficult to control and begins interfering with the person’s life.

A caution about wording

Avoid using the word “addiction” for every habit. A strong habit, a distraction, and a diagnosable addiction are not automatically the same thing.

Sources Used on This Page

Grant, J. E., Potenza, M. N., Weinstein, A., & Gorelick, D. A. (2010). Introduction to behavioral addictions. The American Journal of Drug and Alcohol Abuse, 36(5), 233–241. https://doi.org/10.3109/00952990.2010.491884

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